Meet Welly

To empower people to crush challenges, embrace their evolving desires, and thrive with confidence through inclusivity, education, and personalized strategies.

A future where everyone feels empowered to live unapologetically, rediscover their spark, and own every chapter of their journey—inside and outside the bedroom.

People often say, “Live your best life.” But let’s be honest—it’s not always as simple as it sounds. Life throws us curveballs—physical, emotional, and mental challenges—that can make thriving feel impossible.

Hey, I’m 38 and about to hit the big 4-0. Living in Chicago has taught me how to embrace every season: bulking and building muscle in the winter, leaning out with outdoor workouts in the summer. 

But aging? It hits differently. Motivation dips, and when it’s time to transition from winter gains to summer cuts, that stubborn fat refuses to budge like it used to. And let’s not shy away from the boner conversation. 

Stress, anxiety, hormones, late-night partying, and not enough rest? They all mess with your body and confidence. Sound familiar? You’re not alone. But here’s the deal—you can manage stress, tackle anxiety, and still bring your A-game. That’s where I step in.

It’s more than just wrinkles or gray hairs. Aging can mean noticing your body doesn’t respond like it used to. Maybe it’s harder to stay hard or that stubborn belly fat just won’t melt away—despite your best cardio efforts. 

The good news? These challenges don’t define you. Together, we’ll focus on practical strategies to boost your confidence and get you feeling like the best version of yourself again.

Staying motivated isn’t always easy—especially without reminders, triggers, or someone to hold you accountable. Whether it’s hitting the gym, trying something new, or even just starting your day strong, it’s hard to do it alone.

Having a coach (like me!) means consistent encouragement, realistic strategies, and someone cheering you on as you crush your goals.

Guess what? Your preferences evolve as you grow. Maybe you’ve always been in top mode, but now you’re curious about exploring anal pleasure or discovering new sides of your sexuality. It’s okay to step out of the box (or switch positions 😉).

Been there, done that, and I’ve got the tools, lived experience, and judgment-free zone you need to guide your journey. Let’s make this exploration empowering—not intimidating.

It’s not just about sex—it’s about confidence. My clients often ask:

• "I’m in my 50s/60s—can I still pull off a jockstrap?"
• "How can I dress age-appropriately without losing my edge?"
• "How do I restart my sex life after a divorce or losing my partner?"
• "My kids are heading off to college—what’s next for me?"
• "I’m into masculine guys, but I feel unattractive because I’m feminine—how do I change that?"
• "I’m surrounded by toxic masculinity—where can I find my community?"
• "How do I reclaim my spark after starting over in life?"
• "How can I feel comfortable and sexy in my body as it changes with age?"
• "Can I still be desirable if I’ve never been confident in my looks?"
• "How do I find a wardrobe that feels true to me and also turns heads?"
• "After starting estrogen (MTF), my bottom parts aren’t working properly. How can I feel arousal and explore topping or bottoming again?"
• "After starting testosterone (FTM), I’m dealing with mood swings and bottom growth. How can I navigate these changes and feel confident in my body?"

Whether you’re a single parent dropping kids off at college, restarting life in your 50s, or just trying to rediscover yourself, I get it.

Aging isn’t about fading into the background—it’s about reclaiming who you are and thriving in your next chapter like a boss.